
Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Doyin David, has strongly condemned the constant sexualisation of women, especially by men who focus solely on physical appearance upon meeting a woman for the first time.
In a recent interview on the dating talk show Thanks For Coming, hosted by Grand Prince Ita, the reality TV star expressed her frustration with how women are often reduced to their bodies rather than being appreciated as complete human beings.
“I’m a Whole Human Being Outside My Vagina” – BBN’s Doyin Slams Sexualisation of Women
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“I’m a Whole Human Being Outside My Vagina” – Doyin Speaks Out
“Most times when a guy meets a girl, it’s very easy for them to sexualise her,” Doyin stated. “They’re already thinking, ‘What’s sex going to look like with this person?’ without getting to know her at all.”
She continued by affirming that while sex is important to her, she refuses to be defined by her sexuality. “I’m a whole human being outside my vagina,” she declared, emphasizing that her worth goes far beyond physical attraction.
Dating in Nigeria is “Hectic” – Doyin Shares Personal Experience
Doyin also shared her personal struggles with dating in Nigeria, describing it as an extremely challenging experience. “It’s been a minute, to be honest. A couple of months ago. Dating in Nigeria these days is an extreme sport. It’s hectic,” she said.
Despite these challenges, Doyin expressed her openness to love, stating that she is willing to be submissive in a relationship—but only with the right partner.
“I will be submissive for the right man,” she stated.
Doyin’s View on the Ideal Man
According to Doyin, her ideal man should be emotionally intelligent, a good listener, and someone who actively adjusts his behavior when concerns are raised. She believes these traits are essential for building a solid and respectful relationship.

Why Doyin Won’t Join Nigerian Reality TV Again
Doyin also reflected on her previous experience with Nigerian reality shows, revealing why she’s done with them. She criticized Nigerians for being overly judgmental, a factor that deeply affected her during her time in the limelight.
“People are too judgmental. That’s one of the reasons why I don’t see myself doing another Nigerian reality show,” she explained.
Her recent comments continue to spark conversations around women’s rights, sexual independence, and emotional intelligence in relationships. Doyin’s bold stance reminds the public that every woman deserves to be seen, heard, and valued beyond her physical appearance.